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When we meet the right person to love when we're at

the right place, at the right time. That's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's

not a choice. That's

chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of

couples who get

together because of this) is not a choice, that's

also chance.

The difference is, what happens afterward? When will

you take that

infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing

attraction to the next

level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit

down and then contemplate whether you want to make

this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love the person, even with his

faults, that's not

chance. That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person no matter what,

that's choice. Even if you know there are many

people out there who are more attractive, smarter,

and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to

love your mate just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by

chance. But true love

that last is truly a choice. A choice that we make.

Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote

that I believe is

so true about this-- "Fate brings you together, but

it's still up to you to make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is

truly someone made

for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice

if you're going to do

something about it or not. We may meet our soulmates

by chance, but

loving and staying with our soulmate is still a

choice we have to make.

"You can only see the true colors of a human if you

taste its heart."